A classic party game, but make it sexy! This version of the classic “Would You Rather” game will surely get your night of passion off to a sizzling start.
Whether you’re playing with your long-time partner or trying to spice things up with a group of friends, these 100 sexy Would You Rather questions will surely get you all in the mood and make for a night to remember! And who knows what could happen?
How to play “Would You Rather”
Playing this classic game is easy. To get started, gather at least two players. Of course, the more players you have, the more fun it can be!
Pick a player to start, and this player will say a statement such as, “Would You Rather…” followed by two impossible choices. For example, the statement could be: “Would You Rather have a threesome or go skinny dipping?”
The other players will then take turns picking one of the two choices. You can’t say both, either, and you can’t pass, so choose wisely! After all the players have chosen their answer, the game continues with another player asking a new question.
The game continues like this until you run out of questions or until everyone has had enough fun. You can even add a twist and have players explain why they chose their answer!
“Would You Rather” video guide
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Play “Would You Rather” online
If coming up with questions isn’t your style, you can always resort to an online version of the game. You’ll still get all the fun and excitement of a classic night of “Would You Rather”, but this time, questions are provided for you.
Ready to get the party started? Pick a category, like “Party” or “Popular,” and you’ll be taken to a list of questions. You’ll always have questions and can play the game with your friends anytime, anywhere.
Spicy “Would You Rather” questions
Looking to add some extra heat to your night of passion? We’ve got you covered. Here are 50 sexy “Would You Rather” questions that will get the party started and help make your night extra special:
1. Would you rather be serenaded by your partner or have them write you an intimate love letter?
A tune or words to your heart?
2. Would you rather have sex with the lights on or off?
Let there be light, or keep it dark!
3. Would you rather have a one-night stand or a friends-with-benefits arrangement?
Two very different situations that could lead to an equally good time.
4. Would you rather have sex in the morning or at night?
Start the day with a bang, or end it with one?
5. Would you rather watch porn or read erotica?
Visions or words?
6. Would you rather have a quickie or a long, passionate lovemaking session?
It depends on the day, right?
7. Would you rather be dominant or submissive in bed?
Love to be in control or not?
8. Would you rather have sex with someone who’s experienced or someone inexperienced?
Do you want to teach a newbie the ropes, or do you want someone who knows all the moves?
9. Would you rather be on top or bottom?
Do you want to control the action or have someone else lead?
10. Would you rather use toys or keep it simple with your hands and mouth?
Let’s get adventurous!
11. Would you rather do it in the shower or the bed?
Hey, as long as it’s spacious!
12. Would you rather do it in silence or with music playing in the background?
Any good party – sexy or not – needs a soundtrack.
13. Would you rather try new positions or stick to the classics?
Adventurous or traditional?
14. Would you rather be with someone vocal or quiet?
The choice is yours!
15. Would you rather make out in a public place or try role-playing?
Whatever you choose, it will surely be a night to remember!
16. Would you rather have an intimate dinner at home or a wild night at the club?
Stay in or hit the town?
17. Would you rather be with someone older or younger than you?
As long as you’re both of legal age!
18. Would you rather make love with the lights on or just candlelight?
Set the scene, baby!
19. Would you rather have a massage or a striptease before sex?
Pick your pleasure!
20. Would you rather do it with someone who’s your same height or someone much taller/shorter?
Are you feeling tall or petite?
21. Would you rather do it with someone with a lot of experience or someone new to the game?
Fun for beginners and pros alike!
22. Would you rather do it in a hot tub or a shower?
You decide what’s more steamy!
23. Would you rather do it with someone who’s an early riser or a night owl?
Let the fun begin!
24. Would you rather do it with someone quiet or wild?
Pick your perfect partner!
25. Would you rather do it in a bed or on the floor?
Whatever feels more comfortable!
26. Would you rather make out in a movie theater or park bench?
Dare to try kissing in public?
27. Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded during foreplay?
Be adventurous!
28. Would you rather receive a lap dance or give one?
Think you got some moves?
29. Would you rather watch someone else have sex or be watched while having sex?
Fess up and find out who’s the exhibitionist.
30. Would you rather be handcuffed or tie someone else up?
Your pick from two ways to get kinky!
31. Would you rather have a passionate kiss on the lips or the neck?
Choose how to be kissed and show some love!
32. Would you rather be spanked or have your hair pulled during sex?
Let the fun begin!
33. Would you rather have a shower together or a bubble bath?
Up for some sloppy fun?
34. Would you rather have phone sex or sext?
Dirty talk, but with technology!
35. Would you rather be with someone who talks dirty or is more reserved?
Let me hear it!
36. Would you rather have your partner wear lingerie or go commando?
Time to get dressed up!
37. Would you rather make love in the morning or late at night?
Choose the time that best suits your mood.
38. Would you rather use ice or hot wax during foreplay?
Let’s get creative!
39. Would you rather have a romantic dinner or a picnic in the park?
Both are super romantic!
40. Would you rather watch porn together or read erotica together?
This’ll bring you closer together!
41. Would you rather have a passionate kiss or a deep, sensual kiss?
Time to get close!
42. Would you rather cuddle or have a steamy make-out session?
Let the sparks fly!
43. Would you rather have your partner undress you or undress your partner?
A fun way to start things off!
44. Would you rather have your partner talk dirty in your ear or send dirty texts?
Get too dirty talking!
45. Would you rather be the main attraction at a burlesque show or have a romantic dinner for two on the beach?
Your main character moment!
46. Would you rather be the star of a steamy music video or go on a hot air balloon ride?
Up, up and away!
47. Would you rather have a make-out session in a hot tub or in a pool?
The possibilities are endless!
48. Would you rather have your partner wear a costume or nothing at all?
It’s all up to you!
49. Would you rather have a steamy make-out session in the rain or the snow?
Sounds cold!
50. Would you rather have a one-night stand or a friends-with-benefits arrangement with someone you know?
Consistency or a one-time thrill?
Naughty “Would You Rather” questions
When it comes to sexy and naughty questions, the possibilities are truly endless. If you’re looking for something steamy, funny, or just plain wild, here are a few questions to start your night of passion.
1. Would you rather kiss someone passionately in public or make out at a secluded beach?
Think you can handle some PDAs?
2. Would you rather use whipped cream or chocolate sauce as a body topping?
Delicious!
3. Would you rather play strip poker or spin the bottle?
Get the party started with some flirty games!
4. Would you rather have a one-night stand or date someone for a month?
Love at first sight or getting to know someone?
5. Would you rather make out in a public place or go skinny dipping?
Do you have a wild side or prefer to keep it private?
6. Would you rather role-play as firefighters or cops?
It’s time to put on a show!
7. Would you rather go on a romantic dinner date or an adventurous outdoor date?
Do you prefer a romantic night in or an adventurous day out?
8. Would you rather be blindfolded or have a feather tickler?
I hope you’re ready for the unexpected!
9. Would you rather role-play as strangers in a bar or lovers in a hotel?
Let the sparks fly!
10. Would you rather have a foursome or watch your partner with someone else?
It’s time to take things to the next level!
11. Would you rather be tied up or tie up your partner?
Are you ready to explore your kinkier side?
12. Would you rather have a night of sensual massages or passionate kisses?
Choose your pleasure!
13. Would you rather explore each other’s fantasies or explore the city together?
Dreams come true or explore the world?
14. Would you rather do something daring in public or something naughty in private?
It’s time to decide!
15. Would you rather give or receive a lap dance?
Ready those moves!
16. Would you rather dress up as superheroes or have a night of kinky role-play?
Choose your adventure!
17. Would you rather make out in a secluded spot or get wild at a club?
Where do you want to take things?
18. Would you rather have sex in the shower or on the kitchen counter?
Time to get creative!
19. Would you rather give a strip tease or receive one?
It’s time to reveal your wild side!
20. Would you rather have a night of light BDSM or role-play your wildest fantasies?
Choose your pleasure!
21. Would you rather explore new positions or indulge in some toys and props?
Hey, there’s no wrong answer!
22. Would you rather watch an erotic movie together or write each other steamy love stories?
Let your imagination go wild!
23. Would you rather stay up all night talking or make out the entire day?
Let the night be your playground!
24. Would you rather touch yourself intimately before your partner or have them do it for you?
It’s time to explore!
25. Would you rather whisper something naughty in your partner’s ear or have them do the same to you?
Let’s hear what you’ve got!
26. Would you rather do a striptease for your partner or have them do one for you?
Ready to heat things up?
27. Would you rather do something naughty on an airplane or have a romantic night on the beach?
Choose your adventure!
28. Would you rather share a passionate kiss in public or get frisky at a private party?
Do you prefer a little something extra naughty or nice?
29. Would you rather explore a sex shop or watch some sexy videos together?
Think of it as research for the night!
30. Would you rather undress each other slowly or have an impromptu shower session?
Ready to get wet and wild?
31. Would you rather buy lingerie for each other or wear nothing at all?
Put your wildest fantasies to work!
32. Would you rather have a night of sensual massage or explore each other’s erogenous zones?
They say the best way to learn is through experience!
33. Would you rather explore each other’s fantasies or make up a game of truth or dare?
It’s time to kiss and tell!
34. Would you rather give your partner an erotic lap dance or watch them do one for you?
Let’s see what you’ve got!
35. Would you rather read excerpts from Fifty Shades Of Grey out loud or whisper something naughty while dancing together?
Ready to take things up a notch?
36. Would you rather talk about your fantasies or try something new?
It’s time to explore!
37. Would you rather have a romantic dinner for two or try some sexy board games?
Get competitive or get swept away in the romance!
38. Would you rather whisper sweet things in each other’s or play strip poker?
Choose your pleasure!
39. Would you rather give your partner a sensual massage or take turns giving each other back rubs?
Ah, the power of a good massage.
40. Would you rather do something naughty outside the bedroom or explore role-play scenarios together?
Ready to get creative?
41. Would you rather watch an erotic movie or write and act out your story together?
Let your imaginations soar!
42. Would you rather use food and edible body paint during lovemaking or enjoy a candlelit massage?
It’s time to tantalize the senses!
43. Would you rather go for a romantic walk in nature or stay home and make each other feel special?
Let nature take its course!
44. Would you rather create a naughty playlist or write playful poems?
Hey, let’s see your artistic taste!
45. Would you rather join an orgy or start an online sex club?
Choose your adventure, naughty style!
46. Would you rather have a one-night stand with someone you met on a dating app or take a class on tantric sex?
Time to make some choices and learn something new!
47. Would you rather kiss someone in the rain or spoon them on a beach?
Romantic or sensual, what kind of night do you want?
48. Would you rather use edible body paint or massage oils?
The possibilities are endless! Let’s get messy!
49. Would you rather have a naughty role-play session or watch a steamy movie together?
Explore your fantasies, and maybe even create some new ones.
50. Would you rather be part of a threesome or have sex in public?
Let’s get daring and break some boundaries!
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